Right basically, every single day for the past 2 weeks now i’ve came on tumblr to about 1 or 2 asks each day regarding my girlfriends health and appearance that is actually really personal not only to myself but mainly her.
This really means that all these personal questions are pissing me off and I’m just not going to blurt out too personal shit about someone else to someone I don’t even know so yeah in the points below i’m going to just answer a few questions i’m always getting and to mainly clear stuff up.
1) Yes of course I give a shit about her health and appearance, I don’t care how she looks as long as she is happy and healthy that’s all I’ve said to anyone ever since this all started. I loved her when she was a size 14 a year and a half ago and I love her now. I also keep getting questions like “do you prefer her now she’s skinny?” No to be honest I haven’t changed any interest at all she still makes me happy and she’s still my girlfriend, so as long as I can give her the happiness she deserves then that’s fine for me.
2) Yes I want her to be happy, but then again I want her to be more healthy. What sort of boyfriend would I be if I didn’t want her to be happy or to be healthy?
3) “Why aren’t you helping her? Is everything okay with you and her?” I’ve received so many times in my inbox and it’s driving me insane, Lauren is currently working proper hard revising for exams as well as bagging job interviews as well as preparing for Download, I am well proud of the amount she’s handling at the moment but she’s busy constantly so I respect that, also i’m pushing myself to get the grades I need to get in to uni. Also there’s so much I can do when i’m 155 miles away from my girlfriend. With the whole she’s busy thing, I would be proper stressed about revision and I can’t imagine the amount of stuff she’s going through last thing I want to do is distract her and we both know this so i’m waiting for her exams to finish then we can start talking more.
4) My final point on all this is to the people giving my girlfriend shit about her eating and trying to put her down…You are a pieces of shit, why the fuck would you put someone down who is ill and is trying to get better?
After all this can you please stop asking me personal questions about my girlfriend, this is someone to me who I really care about and want to help despite the limited amount of stuff I can really do to really help her at this hectic time.